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I’m in a relationship with this guy and he’s not really financially buoyant but I love him and I’m ready to wait, but he has his own issues and somehow always ends up hurting me, he’s even cheated like 3 times and I caught him but then that’s just what I found out I don’t know of the rest, so please guys now I cheated on him too once but I don’t know if I should move on by telling him since he might not forgive me or just tell him and see if he’ll forgive me
I really love this guy but then he makes me feel bad at times.
But I know he loves me too.
I need help.
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Hello please me anonymous.
I'm a guy,23 years done with university. So, I met this she girl in level 100 we dated for 5 months and broke up cos we weren't hearing from each other. Fast forward, September 2019 we rekindle our love and I must confess it was the best part of my life, damn I loved this girl but insecurity from my side led to another breakup the girl fine Charlie, I won't lie to you.
We broke up when I was in level 300 till date, I'm depressed like something, nothing makes me happy, have dated not less than 10 girls after our breakup, slept with like 7 of them. Currently dating 2 ladies who are student nurses. They are really good to me, I can see they both love me so much, but the truth is I've tried so much to love them but it's not working as I used to love the other lady. Have tried moving on and it's not working, went back to the lady and she said she isn't ready for me ATM and she isn't in the country too. Now I don't know what to do.
Kindly help me, I need your advice cos I keep on hurting innocent ladies day in day out, overthinking is now my hobby, depression is like a daily food, hurting ladies has now become a part of me and I want to stop it.
Will be waiting for your advice, thanks.
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Please hide my identity.
I was dating this girl way back in 2014 n I really loved this girl. Like I loved her to the extent that I didn’t want to touch her but wait for our honeymoon so that it could be special. But this girl took me for a fool thinking I was a John boy. Telling her friends that I’m not “guy”. When I heard all these things I didn’t believe because I trusted this girl so much that I never expected that from her.
Fast forward, I’m now dating a girl that I’m 10 years older than. We are both in love. Very serious one. But I’m scared I can’t marry this girl because of age-wise. because very soon I will be tempted to marry and give birth and this girl I’m dating is young. Maybe she won’t be ready by then. I discussed it with her and she said k should give her 7 years before she can think about marriage. Now the girl I dated way back in 2014 too we r now vibing well. I just need advice on whom to be with. because I really love the one I dated at first. But the small girl too I really like her and don’t know how to tell her she should move on because it will really break her down n her heart. N she is in school too. Thank you.
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keep me anonymous!
Well, I and my girl have been dating for over a year and a half now we were both in SHS, but I was her senior and we started dating the year I completed I was known to be a playboy, but she didn’t mind that she loves me I also loved her very much.
Fast forward, she was a virgin, so we decided to have sex when she completed, and it happened, we had sex like 3 times now. got admission to KNUST and she left early to school the problem is the care and attention has reduced drastically whenever I complain she’s always like she’s busy and all those stuffs so I decided not to complain anymore the mind you I don’t trust her anymore coz she has totally changed she came home for some vacations 2 weeks ago and what she said was she wants us to put sex aside in the relationship with no reason I also told her I can’t do that and plus she’s not giving me any reason for that decision so I told her if she’s not going to change her mind I’m not going to change mine either so it will lead to a breakup and fast forward we broke up.
The day before she’ll go to school, she said she wanted to come see me so I agreed she came and was acting as if were still dating saying she misses me and romancing me here and there so I got horny, and she said no Buh I should understand her with no reason I told her I’m still standing by my decision. Honestly, I have kind of lost interest in her coz the relationship is a distant one now and I’m not good in that, what should I do with her because she thinks we’re back.
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